I am engaged to be married next year, and I have been diagnosed with genital herpes. I haven’t told my fiancé about the herpes and I’m not planning on doing so. My best friend knows about it, and she says that I should tell him. But she doesn’t understand how hard it is. I’m afraid to tell him – I can’t tell him.”
How would her life be different if she had chosen abstinence? Would she have anything to worry about?